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Lady in the Bag

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Personal Relationship Advice: how to make it REALLY work!


Three simple rules: close friends, companions, lovers, spouses and/or family members must agree to always abide by these 3 rules (AKA LAWS).

  1. Narrow the argument (issue, dispute) to one problem: DO NOT bring up what happened yesterday, last week or what OTHER people think or say(or said);

  2. You must kiss the other person before heading off to bed (sleep) or isolating yourself (wherever you wish to escape) (You can kiss the person on the top of their head or even on a dangling length of hair.); and

  3. You must say “I love you”, before you go to bed (This is also recommended for telephone conversations.).

AH HA! This simple process works. In fact, practically speaking, by the time that the dispute is narrowed, and you walk away from each other, you should be smiling because you know that steps 2 and 3 are in place. The objective is to walk away with confidence that your relationship is secure. You simply disagree on an issue and need to resolve it: with COMPROMISE. Pick and choose your battles carefully and thoughtfully. Let go of the small stuff!




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This is a very nice write up kudos great advice only if people would remember this when dealing with issues of relationships.. good stuff!

Good advice 

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